Don't Play If You Can't Take It
12 years ago
Have you tried entering your precious little one over kid's contests or looked for a talent agency? I admit, it came across my thought but never really pushed for it. You see your kid so cute, charming and all, why not dream of having a little toting model? It may sound vain and presumptuous but every parent sees their kid in a certain way like no other.
Vanity and pride set aside, why aspire for your kid to be a photo ad model per say? For me it's more of thinking ahead for his future. I can only make so much being a stay-at-home-mom trying to do some freelance jobs here and there. Given that he's not the most charming nor handsome kid, somehow that's the kind of appeal agencies like of Vesta Talent Agency is looking for. Given the opportunity, whatever he earns from modelling easily goes to his schooling, most especially for his college funds. But of course I don't want to just put him on the spot and he's not up for it. Vesta Talent Agency and most other agencies are located in LA, so to speak, it's way so far from where we live.
Maybe if it's really meant to happen then it would be. I can say more that I am wishful thinking. Well at least here at home, he's my very own little model.
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It's been a while since I sat down and handled paperworks. What's the deal with it? Well to begin with, some paperworks require tedious amount of time and details in order to be filled out and finished. I could wish it's as simple as write your name, address and few details here and there, but that wasn't the case. Literally I had to keep those papers for thorough review before even starting to fill in the blanks.
While some papers could do with just more time on my desk, others would need to have some translations done in order to fully grasp the concept of what's all about. It doesn't help at all staring all day on a stapled set of papers and you've got all these question marks all over your head. Regardless how much effort you make, nothing just seems to make sense of it. It happens you know, most especially when you are working with other language platform.
In grave cases that much help is needed, it's better to seek for some professional help like having translators to do the job of transcribing it accordingly. Rosetta is one of which performs when it comes to this field of practice. I dread to do all those financial aspect of papers with things I am not so well versed with. I could only try as much and in order to progress, a little help outside made a big difference.
Time flies, now he's baby no more. Our little baby once is now officially a little kid, not even a toting toddler. So funny of him having to wear his precious preschool crown he got on his birthday celebration, along with the sunglasses that he gave as souvenir on his birthday playdate with his best buddies. Quite a character, he is. We're proud to have a very happy little boy, so good natured though quite naughty at times. He's very sweet and loves mommy and daddy with him. We love you baby!
My little boy loves cats, dogs, bunnies and fishes, as you can see he's having so much fun with the cute kitty. When we played at the backyard kitty was so cute chasing insects flying around.
Dear friends and readers, keeping up with this little munchkin takes practically all my time along with squeezing some home office works and wifey duty. JIF Photo Journal has been long neglected unintentionally, so please excuse the faulty commenting and all other technical issues. I have only been accessing my blogs through mobile and have very limited time to do so. It has been a very stressful and busy October for us that's why I'm taking some comfort writing some blog posts. I want to thank you all for continuously visiting and being part of my journey here in JIFPJ.
{Little J and mommy made a very special Minion gift box for J's buddy. It's made of an old gift box cover & construction papers}
Yesterday we went for a little outdoor time, made the little joy chased bubbles, biked a little bit then walked to Walgreens. As we were browsing around, J found interesting toys and I started fishing out ideas for Christmas presents. He got hooked with one toy, the Hungry Hippo. He remembered how much he liked playing with his friend's Hungry Hippo. He had a hard time letting to of the toy so I told him he can ask Santa for it on Christmas.
A day passed and he hasn't forgotten about that little toy. Early morning he told me he doesn't want Chuggjngton anymore for Christmas, just Hungry Hippo. So I told him he can write a letter and ask Dear Old Santa his request. With much whining and fussing getting tired finishing the letter, he managed to do his letter. Now, Santa better make sure he gets the much requested present, a little boy worked so hard to finish that letter.
I just felt like cooking that night so I made Pancit Canton Guisado. I lacked ingredients, not even a carrot but still cooked it. We have no special guests to serve it to and it will be just our family dinner so it didn't matter much to me. Making sure the taste would pass my little boy's standard was my challenge as it would be his first time trying that kind of noodle dish.
Done cooking and the test was on, I passed! He was excited with the noodles and right after tasting it decided to eat on his own. Had to fish out the cabbages because he didn't like the texture, I knew it would've been better if I had carrots with it. We all had a lovely dinner, happy with the warm freshly cooked meal. Yummy! Second serving was enjoyed afterwards... A bit of spoiling for the night.
Today is a rest day for us, no intention of going to park or any playdate. He's just started preschool and goes every Mondays and Wednesdays for 2hrs. Keeping up with the 9am schedule is a bit tough, along with it his changing nap schedule. He's almost weaning with the nap but apparently needs it from time to time as he gets tired and cranky if he has a full week of no nap.
His preschool is nothing academic at this age, it's more of a play school pattern which works on child socialization and development. I decided to refresh him with his numbers, alphabet and writing his name. He's very good in spelling his name but not really writing it yet on his own. Little step at a time and he'll get there. We enjoy having him play and do fun things for now, make learning in different approach as well.
Errands day is tiring but nice in a way. We always try to rewards ourselves with Filipino comfort foods after a tiring day of errands. At first we thought of going to our favorite Pinoy BBQ Atbp in Milpitas but had a change of heart and looked for a nearer Filipino eating place. We found Jollibee, the beloved fast food almost every kid's favorite back home. It was a lovely day so we opted for the outdoor sitting.
See the little boy enjoying his own chicken joy lunch? That's quite a big meal for a little one so he ended up eating the rest at home for dinner. He was vey much savoring the cheesy fries, getting every last bit of the cheese.
We topped our yummy meal with a refreshing pearl cooler or taro shake. I can't remember when was the last time I had this drink. J tasted it as well but I guess he was too full to share with us. All of us went home with a smile, full and happy tummies.
We take J to the jungle gym on Sundays from 5pm til 8pm. They have a free play from 5pm on on Sundays so we take the chance for our little boy to play, explore and most especially burn the energy.
At first you can expect his drama, crying and asking to be helped. It's pretty normal for him to just get into the mood for mere 30mins and worse when he still fusses about in an hour. Usually he'll end up meeting other kids and they will end ip all playing together. Once he's in the playing mood it's hard to follow him around as he keeps up so well with the bigger kids.
This facility is nice because it's indoor and there's an additional outdoor play area as well. Just be cautious and keep upur eyes peeled on your little one as it can be literally like a jungle there once super hyper big kids start playing through the maze. I feel bad when my boy cries when frightened by rough play but that's part of growing up. He has to learn how to play, interact and look after himself.
The cable car is a famous attraction in San Francisco. During our visit last Saturday we decided to take J to ride the "trolley" as he calls it. It was rather a tiring experience because owe had to wait the qeue for 2hrs. It wasn't like that before, there was no long line and was very convenient. If not for our boy we wouldn't be patient enough to wait that long. Good thing we were able to contain and keep a 3yr old busy during the wait. We didn't know what happened for real but according to the operator/driver, 2 cable cars broke down. There were other speculations amongst the crowd like upcoming strike , etc.
Well, our little boy enjoyed the ride so much. He was singing songs and smiling from ear to ear. He was totally knocked out going back to the garage as he fell asleep in the trolley right after eating some snacks. Poor boy very hungry and sleepy, lucky us he didn't throw a fit. Had to carry him from the end station all the way to the parking garage in deep sleep.
Hubs is trying to beat deadlines and doing much overtime. Whenever he needs to do overtime on weekends we try to keep him company. He wouldn't go to the office if there's no grave need, but this time he really needs to exert extra effort to keep up with the submission on Monday. We gave him a visit last Friday night and brought some dinner as well so he could go on and not starve himself. He was able to finish what he intended to accomplish but needs extra time over weekend.
Here we are right in daddy's office now again, it's Sunday and we all want to be together even if that means having to wait for him. Brought in toys, activity book, foods and gadgets to keep me and J busy. Cool that I get to blog even a bit and J occupied playing.
It is important for an individual, a couple or a family to have their own quality time alone. This is very hard when you are surrounded by many people but there will always be a window period when you can have that little quality time. Regardless how it will be spent, what matters most is doing it for yourself, together with your dear partner or a fun time with your family.
I remember how me and hubs spent our 5th wedding anniversary last 2012 with our little boy. We booked for an overnight stay in a hotel not too far from our place just to be able to spend some quality time as a family in a more intimate manner. That was actually a brilliant idea because we had much fun even for that short one night escapade. We don't mind having our boy around because we're enjoying every second of the time we can with him, time flies and he's growing up so fast.
We're simple people, we don't need much activities to enjoy a family day. Baby had fun playing with his trains alone for a while in the room, we all had fun swimming that same afternoon and then a nice quiet evening for me and hubs watching TV while baby J in deep sleep being tired from afternoon swim. The next morning me and baby explored through the hotel and took some nice photos while daddy's still sleeping. A nice breakfast for all of us to finish off our mini escapade. Very simple indeed but we all had our quality time.
I know most couples would say it's hard to find time alone once you have kids. It's true but there will always be time. Some friends or relatives for instance might offer a babysitting for a little time so you can go out for a date. As shy as you may be, don't always throw away the offer. Find the perfect time to take the offer and enjoy some time alone. It may be as simple as just a lunch out or a movie, what's important is the fact that you don't need to watch after your kid while enjoying a meal together even for a wee time. Have a drink or two, do something you haven't done for a while.
Perhaps not all couples will agree to our kind of quality time alone, this is just our simple way of doing things. It won't be surprising if for some, a hotel booking in Executive Fantasy Hotels without the kid would have been more desirable. Nothing wrong with that it's completely acceptable, enjoying a suite of their own even for just a night would be their ultimate quality time.
Whenever I think of Japanese foods I think of cute stuff. Won't you agree on that? Bento for instance, arranged and served in a lunch box with much presentation. Definitely kawaii! The photo above is a small snack for kids given by our Japanese friend. It's a cheese flavored sea creature crackers, very simple snack but so cute.
There you can see a squid, starfish, jellyfish, whale, crab, turtle, and other fishes plus an anchor. The snack is hollow inside, so it gives you that crackling sound as you bite through. Imagine the joy of a little kid munching on cute sea creatures as a tasty treat.
Another cute Japanese food thingy is the egg molds. My little loves his hard boiled eggs molded into shapes. So far we only have star and heart shapes, it would be nice to add some cool car shapes too. Using this is easy, simply boil the eggs as usual then right when it's done and still hot you must peel it and put in the mold. Don't make a mistake of putting it there after cooling it down, it will just mess the egg and you'll end up having a mess. The trick is to run the newly boiled egg in cold water just enough for you to handle and peel it.
Remember the post "The Shoes And Stick On The Sand"? It took me a while to make another post due to some photo attachment issues in blogger that I have been experiencing. Luckily today I was able to successfully upload my photos. Here's the partial story behind the post "The Shoes And Stick On The Sand".
Every year we go to San Francisco to do our taxes. It's quite a drive to go there but we have our trusted Tax Preparer there who's been handling our taxes for the longest time. We take our tax day as a reason to go somewhere special around the bay area. This year we went to Pacifica, located just 12 miles south
of San Francisco along the scenic coast of the Pacific Ocean. Known for
its natural beauty, Pacifica is filled with numerous hiking trails
through rolling hills that overlook the ocean surf and forested canyons.
"Pacifica means "peaceful" in Spanish.
However, the City of Pacifica did not receive its name from its Spanish
foreparents. Pacifica's name was the product of a contest held in 1957
to find a name for the newly incorporated coastal city. The winning name
was based on an 80-foot statue by sculptor Ralph Stackpole, created as
the theme lady for the Golden Gate International Exposition. The
Exposition was held on Treasure Island in 1939-40. The statue was
destroyed after the fair was over but two of the sculptor's working
models have been saved. One is over the front stairs at City Hall; the
other sits in the City Council Chambers."
So there, we went to Pacifica to spend some quality family time with our little boy. We knew he'd enjoy the beach with the sand and the water. I told hubs I prefer to stay under the tree to shield us from the scorching sun but to our surprise it was a hazy day. Sun was completely shielded therefore it was freezing cold, chilly like winter! Hubs was actually laughing at me teasing me about the tree shade I was asking for, it was so chilly even under faint sun. Luckily we had all our snow clothes in the car trunk and managed to keep ourselves warm adding some layers.
See our happy boy gathering wet sand for his sand castle and few sticks? It was too cold that we didn't want to stay near the shore. Getting some "building materials" for little J's sand castle needed much effort walking to the shore and back. Pobresito carrying a bucket full of wet sand, quite heavy for a little boy so he made mommy do the carrying for him after few rounds.
We have a little Architect in the making, he was being so crafty and creative trying to etch and put doors and windows on the sand castle. I was even telling him not to be that detailed because I was afraid it would collapse and I didn't want to deal with crying and all. Can you see the proud and happy daddy behind all bundled up as well? It turned out to be a simple but special outing for us. Having a picnic lunch at the beach and just kicking back some time. We did more fun stuff later on but this is it for now.
My boy and I would often go for a walk around the neighborhood, carrying along our camera we would take photos of beautiful flowers along the way. It's very nice to walk around with him because we get to be out and do a little exercise together. I get to teach him road safety during our walks. He's doing really good when it comes to stopping before nearing the crosswalks and staying on the sidewalk. He was so terrible with that when he was younger, would often run off here and there.
Back to the lovely tulips, we took this photo near the library by the Ainsley Museum. Every Spring the whole garden is planted with lovely flowers, I love this photo because the tulips stand out with its vibrant colors against the green background. Of course it's not photo perfect given our "playtime" camera but I love it. J gave me a hand taking this photo or should I say I gave him a hand as he's starting to be intrigued holding the camera and taking the shots himself.
There's a story how these shoes got to be on the sandy beach. What's up with the stick? Oh well, a little boy had to keep his stick together with his shoes. Why did I post this shot which doesn't seem to mean anything else? Seriously, I just love it. Looking at the photo makes me feel nostalgic, it gives me the feeling that the shoes were just part of a bigger story, an experience which made memories. For now I'll just let you ponder...
One thing that hubs didn't want us to miss is to see where he has grown. To revisit the place where he spent much of his childhood. What's this place called? It's Alameda, an island city in San Francisco Bay. This island community has a small town with beautiful Victorian charm vibe, gives you that nostalgic feeling when you walk through and stroll around.
I've been to this place twice and I wouldn't coming back for more. Hubs would check out those spots where they used to play before and show it to our boy. There's Crab Cove Museum but we haven't had the chance to visit that place. Having our little boy, the beach is pretty much enough for us to spend most of our time. Making sand castle with moat surely keeps us busy there.
Last time we went there our boy was so happy making footprints on the sand. It's so nice to see him commune with nature that way, feeling his bare feet on the sand and getting dirty just like any normal kid. We ran, dig some canals and chase sea gulls.... made some memories, that's what we did.
Can rain stop a little boy from enjoying a day out? I guess not, at least for our boy. You can judge from the photo that he's absolutely enjoying the rainy day. Normally it would be a fight just to make him wear a jacket but when it comes to some splashing on puddles, he would be so eager to dress up and go.
This is just one of those rainy days when we had to do some errands and go out in the rain. It was just a light shower and the temperature was not freezing cold. At first he was loving the walk without umbrella and I was the one holding it running after him. It was just a pain to do that so luckily I wore my waterproof jacket and let him have the umbrella himself. At first there was much complains and rejection but after having the hang of holding it, he was actually happily singing and hopping on puddles.
I love having this kind of moment with my little boy, nothing fancy just plain old fun. At least he'll grow up remembering he once played in the rain and wasn't just locked at home looking out the window. We have to enjoy every moment, we can't stop the rain from falling, just like how I can't stop my boy from growing so fast....
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